Can My Marriage Be Saved?

[a girl]

Having a hard time so far this morning. He was in the office when I came down - decided that while I'm not going to follow him, I like to eat breakfast on my computer and I'm not going to stop.

He played with S for a while, then headed upstairs. He said "I just really like our living room. It's nice." Okay.

I chatted with him briefly when I went up for a soda, but just now while making S lunch and putting dishes away, he didn't say anything and I didn't go in to talk to him.

Keep going back and forth on how can he have gone from normal and happy to unhappy and not in love in a month. Although I've been certain he's not having an A, it's getting harder to hold on to that certainty.

Anyway. Could really use some help talking myself down - fighting the urge to just go in and yell at him. Not productive. Doesn't get me closer to my goals. Need to just back off and not engage. But it's hard.