Ok how about

wife:

I am respectfully giving you the time you need to process everything that happened yesterday.  I want to make my request to you very clear, so here goes:

1. I cannot, and will not live under the same roof with someone who is unfaithful.  It Is NOT a line that I am willing to cross for anyone.

2. if you chose to continue to see this other person, then it is time for you to leave, I will give you 30 days.  I do NOT want our kids exposed to that.

3. If you choose to stay in our home with our family, your relationship with this other person is to be terminated permanently immediately.

I am reiterating some of what I said yesterday, I expect a reply to this email as soon as you have read it, so that I know you understand.

We are counting on you.

J


Me 45 W 34 W.A.W.
3K. D11 S9 D6
M 12 y T 13 y
Bomb drop 02/22/2011
2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011
Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011