J1, I would keep it a bit more simple. If she is willing to give up OM, that would be enough for now. All the rest about working on the M and going to MC may be too much.
Remember that a WAW feels entitled to a point. They easily justify their position by their reasoning that the M us already over.
Your W is in a complete fog picturing herself free as a bird and happy with OM.
It's a fantacy land because it's not real life...
Stay calm... Be firm... But be nice... OM needs to be gone to heal the family...
Other opinions welcome...
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
