My H will never confront himself or the people he is hurting. In fact he has stated he hates confrontation so instead he runs away or puts in away and never deals with it. He probably still would be here to day if he didnt get caught having OW. He didnt know what to do so he left. I was the blame for everything. I dont know if its a MLC or not. I just need to find sense in all of this so i can cope. I know what he did was wrong. I know he lied but yet i hold on to hope. I just wish there was someway he find forgiveness if for no one but himself.