Ultimately, the ball is in my W court right now. She will have to decide on whether she is willing to make an effort, considering that the cards are on the table now.
In DB, one of the things MWD talks about is how Marriage can be thought of as a cyclical relationship, rather than a binary one. So, it's always your move even if you'd like to see her make a decision or take a certain action.
Yes, the cards (well, some of them..) are on the table. But this isn't that kind of game - I think expecting her to make an effort or decide right now could be a losing proposition.
If I were in your shoes, I would do my best to get a 30000 foot understanding of EA's and the effects they have on the mind and perception. If nothing else, it will make it easier for you to understand what you can probably expect her to be feeling/thinking.
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.
