Pick up the Divorce Remedy Book by Michele Wiener Davis asap and read it. Then read it again and again.
Your W is asking for space. Give it to her. Quit talking about your R/M (relationship/marriage). It is putting pressure on her and you will not get the answers that you want to hear.
Now these 180s that you speak of. Are they 180s that needed to happen and will stick or are they 180s to win your W back? Hopefully the former, because if they are just to win your W back, you will most likely find yourself in the same position you are in now.
On the home page of this site, there are several articles that you might find helpful. Additionally, go to youtube and search Michele Wiener Davis. I found many of her video clips to be helpful.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
