I thought the same thing....that he might think I was actually up to something.

Had a very fun yet exhausting day yesterday with H and 5 of our friends. We hiked San Jacinto Peak. H sometimes would pull ahead (I was the slow one of our group) but then he would stop and wait for me to catch up. At the end when the rest of the group was booking it down the mountain (they were maybe 5-10 minutes ahead), he slowed up and hung with me. That was very nice. It was very much an endurance type of day, and we joked a lot at the end that we couldn't believe the parking lot was still so far away. All in all...I'd say it was a great experience and something fun that my H and I did together. Afterwards we all went to a local spot for a beer and a burger.

I do feel lately that we are living more like roommates (in the same bed). I'm a bit tired of pursuing, so not doing much of that. We stayed in bed until noon today just watching the Tour de France and resting up from our trek yesterday. He helped clean up the house and then took off on his motorcycle to who knows where? Probably OW? Maybe not? I just don't flipping know.

Our big adventure to Whitney is in a couple of weeks. We learned a lot from our trip yesterday and we'll be joined by the same group of friends so it should be a trip to remember.

Happy 4th friends....A.


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14