4evah'n'evah... awww maaan...

[a girl]

I need to recognize that in myself when it starts to come up and allow myself to recognize that the opposer may not be trying to make me wrong. Rather, they are simply stating a different point of view which does not invalidate my view.

That's such a good thing to note and a hard thing to do, huh? I'm still struggling with how to balance my H's truth about a situation with my truth, especially when we don't see even close to eye to eye right now.

I'm looking forward to hearing how you do with this.