Devastated

[a girl]

I hope you're getting the IC you need - I would encourage you, even in individual counseling, to seek out someone who is "pro" marriage - if you want to save your marriage, you need someone who is on board with that.

You're stronger than you know, and if you just take it one minute, one hour, one week at a time, you will get through it. Work on you - keep yourself busy, do things you love - as 25 says, become a woman only a fool would leave.