Thanks for your response Virgina (Walking). No my H. is not the person I thought he was at all, he is too a good and kind man, whom I loved and still love unreservedly.
I mourn the person I believed him to be, and what I believed our marriage was based upon.
I wish my H. well. I now sincerely doubt he will ever do the introspection, analysis and self healing required to become a whole, healed and emotionally healthy.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.