The only choice I have no is full surrender to Divorce. Against all odds, with my W deeply immersed in an affair with OM/Boss, I managed to bust for 6 years. That is something I can be proud of.
Sometimes, I feel those years were wasted, but there were some happy times during them as well. Some moments between STBX and I, that at the time felt awesome. My kids are older and were able to make it to their 18 and 16 with their Mom and Dad together. We are financially better off than 6 years ago, and I can honestly say that I did everything I was capable of at every turn to save my marriage and my family. I have some solace in that.
