I called the OM and asked him to back off, and to think long and hard about the 4 lives that were being destroyed.

I also calked her sister to give her a heads up, as to what's happening. I asked her sister to keep it in confidence.

I called her friend that knows our sitch, and gave her a heads up to know that my W may need support today.

I know I am not following the things I am "supposed to do" but I have no idea what else I can do, nothing else has worked so far. I will not give up on my marriage without fighting for it. Even though she has betrayed me, in the most inimaginable way possible, I still love her. I know with time and counseling, I can forgive her.

Me 45 W 34 W.A.W.
3K. D11 S9 D6
M 12 y T 13 y
Bomb drop 02/22/2011
2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011
Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011