I'll toss this somber stuff in the middle to soften the blow a bit. Have your goals changed? You are not D yet. Are you taking a breather or just letting life play out?
You understand that I'm in full on retrospect mode. And I currently am not trying to save my M, atm. So I completely understand if that is the same place you are coming from.
Your S10 appears to see your OW as some "friend" of dad's who is hanging out with him and using the pool and boating with dad...
Your S15, by your words, not so much... how is he acting or what is he saying, regarding OW?
In the mean time, have fun boating! I got a great laugh out of how you were "out maned" in the dry dock maneuvers... lol! Not to mention the unconditional "gifts" she's given (getting your boat in the water, fixing the panels, the light). Truly awesome!
