I'm sad tonight. My daughter still doesn't want to have contact with me. I still suspect it's the strain coupled with her desire to "mother" her mom. I'm torn because while it makes me sad, it is not clear to me that it would be in my daughter's best interest to force anything. I think it is not.

I read this article a little while back and it resonates with me. Comments?
http://library.adoption.com/articles/alienation-and-alignment-of-children.html


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."