Ok and update on whats going on. I decided not to become dark anymore and maintain a friendship with the wife. She really wants to be friends and have some family time together once a week or every other. I do know her reasoning is for the kids sake only. However I feel its a great opportunity for me to show her the changes in me and to show her they are here to stay. Anyway we were texting a bit today and somehow the topic of eharmony came about. It turns out the guy she has been talking to from there was from NYC but moved here. I cautiously encouraged her to go out with him on a date. It killed me to do it but I had to at least give her the perception I support the idea and I have begun to move on and GAL. So it looks like tonight I have the kids overnight instead for the day so she can go out on her date with him. It will be a group setting, 4 of them going to baseball game. It kills me that she is going but I do feel I must support and encourage. She has encouraged me to date as well. Said I am a great guy, just not for her. The frustration!!!!! However I kept my cool and told her to have a great time. I'm not exactly sure if she knows what she wants, but I am completely without a doubt sure what she doesn't....me She is so difficult to read as her personality type is all about friendship and such. She has to be the nicest person on the planet. Even through all this she has been extremely nice from day 1. Any thoughts or suggestions?
She is so difficult to read as her personality type is all about friendship and such. She has to be the nicest person on the planet. Even through all this she has been extremely nice from day 1. Any thoughts or suggestions?
