It's very hard to achieve what you want if you don't know what it is. It's very hard to measure progess if you don't know what you're measuring against.
It's easy to say you want to get back together--you want out of this pain, you want to go back...SORT OF.
What you probably REALLY want is the good aspects of your relationships, more of the love, and less of this...crap you're going through.
And if you're on the edge, wanting to walk out, you wish your spouse would GET IT and turn it around because it's nearly too late for you...what is it SPECIFICALLY that is good.
Michele says research shows beyond a shadow of a doubt, that focusing on the positives...working on those things...saves more marriages than the endless therapy talking about the negatives.
But what IS IT specifically?
What do YOU want MORE OF in your relationship...?
The clues are in what was good when things were good? What is still good?
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
