The hardest thing I've ever done.

[kermitdfrog]

Roy,

My story is under My heart is breaking, in case you want to read it. (I don't know how to add the link) But I have read your thread and I, also, admire you greatly. I have relied heavily on my faith, and my Christian friends, and don't know how I could survive this without God.

A few posts back, God's plan was discussed. I asked our biblical MC the question of "What if it is God's plan for us to divorce?" and he said it is NEVER in God's plan for us to divorce. He will use people, obstacles, events, etc to lean heavily on your spouse. But ultimately, your spouse has to make the choice. And IF he/she chooses D, God will then take that pain and use it for good. Pain is never wasted. But God's will is for the marriage to stay intact.

Also, I have been told many times that it's never over till God says it's over. Even after filing, even after divorce, many couples are reunited.

Just wanted to add those things that I find helpful.

God bless you
Kermit (by the way, I also live in MO)