When he is not quite himself he makes very poor choices and has put me in situations that I am not comfortable in. I recently put my foot down in the beginning of this year and he has not put me in those situations any longer.
Sounds to me like you did a 180 in this situation and it produced some positive results. What are some other 180s you are working on?
Originally Posted By: Chances
It is very hard to be here and I keep thinking that I am going to wake up and things will be better or it was a bad dream. Sadly, not the case. H and I took the kids to dinner last night and he couldn't make eye contact with me which hurts. The tension and distance between us is almost as painful as an argument. Where we used to be so loving. I'm not sure how things changed and when.
I remember this feeling all too well. I thought I'd wake up one day and my W would say, "Just kidding!". This was the deepest pain I've ever known.
Originally Posted By: Chances
This week is all about me GAL. I deserve it. My kids deserve it.
Good for you. This will help definitely help you. Hopefully it will ultimately help your M.
