+1 ^

And now to share something I just read that screamed out GB's situation. This might be an interesting article for GB to read with his wife to see if it is indeed what she thinks. Then again, this might allow you to play with the fire that you seem to want. In any event you and your wife are adults (at least once she grows out of her MLC).

Personally, I am one of the folks described in the article who is really into monogamy and value its clearly stated advantages for a heterosexual couple.

So GB, here goes an interesting reading assignment for you that should take you on a swing of emotions. NY Times article on what a loose view of monogamy is: Married, With Infidelities

Good luck

>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.