H has been rather weird for the last week. He's been deliberately holding eye contact, and lingering around before he goes off to bed (in the Guest Room). Not sure what is up, but I'm not biting. My C says he's trying to goad me into doing something, like coming on to him or starting a R talk. I have no intention of starting that. He has to want to talk, which means he has to use his words and initiate. Otherwise, it seems he is just trying to get me to justify his decision (by starting a fight or applying R pressure) and I'm just not into that. The other night, he actually left his bedroom door open when he knew I'd be walking by with the dogs (to let them out before bed). In 20 years of marriage, he has NEVER left the bedroom door open when he goes to bed. Meanwhile, he's actively looking at places to move out to once I get a job. Dude is seriously confused. I actually feel bad for him. But I'm GAL, and am having a good time.
