Cas, All the best. I too am thinking of moving on: I was off the boards for well over two years. Been back for a while, while I went through the divorce and needed to vent. Now it is time to move on again for me too.
I did not get the impression you were bothered where your h was on the journey: the only reason it could matter is that as Snodderley say - do not confuse touch and goes during replay with genuine reconnection. That has been good advice to me.
Whatever we do it is our journey. No-one but us can know the quality of the marriage. And no-one knows the chances of reconciliation or whether it is worth it.
Someone who got back together told me privately it was probably not worth it, another told me it was worth the wait. Who knows??
I am not on the alt. A personal thing, but all the very best.
