If you think you being on good behavior for a month is going to fix this you're sorely mistaken.
Here is what I see: You have failed to provide the most fundamental need to any woman and most especially to your wife:
!!!! SAFETY !!!!
If you want to fix your marriage start there and only there until you have mastered it.
That means:
1) Safety from your angry outbursts. 2) Safety from her doubts on your fidelity 3) Safety from not being able to express herself without you climbing down her throat 4) Safety from your disparaging thoughts ... and I can go on but I don't feel like it.
Provide a safe environment for your wife to flourish in.
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
HERE IT IS...... be ready this is DEEP...
LEARN TO BE A HAPPY MAN..
That's it..
LEARN TO BE A HAPPY MAN..
You WILL find then that all your troubles will start to vanish....
Be happy JUST the way things are in your life.. Be happy..
That's it..
No pressure Denver. None. Notta. Zilch.
These two posts really say A LOT. Ask yourself..."Am I listening to what my W really is saying?" and give her what she wants.
I'm not saying your not trying, but I want you to really look at these two quotes over and over and over. I think they apply in your sitch AND many others. Just my opinion. No pressure.
