My other point was that labelling things as MLC for many here, is a waste of time.
If your sitch was one of the rare ones in which you did nothing to contribute to your h's behavior
I believe you. But I still say that's rare. And I think a lot of people here are looking at alcoholism or adultery and calling it MLC
and I don't see how that helps them except to hope it means a more likely reconciliation.
25 ... that's some insightful stuff. I really must ponder this. Somethiing we all should consider before labeling our spouses with the worst case, MLC scenario. Really need to thoroughly examine ourselves, and accept responsibilty for our contributions to our sitch's before blaming others. I always appreciate hearing you POV. Have a great weekend!