I do think trips are always tough ones. Just like weekends.
Couple of friends advised me today to just back off. Just like you - take the avoidance route. Gonna be hard, with a 3 day weekend coming up. Hey, lets take a challenge - lets see who can do this for the whole 3 days! Catch up with you on Tuesday.... I will think of you when I feel like opening my mouth to say something.
I am not eating well either - lost 5 lbs this week which I think is good, so I look at the positive side of it ....
At least you both are seeking some kind of professional help. My H seems to think he can go through this without any - and to think me and my H are both doctors. Doctor, heal thyself must be his motto.
Have a good 4th!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go