"D has been through a lot with everything that has happened. In the best interest of D, I don't feel like it is a good idea for her to see you."
Almost 100% disagreement here...sorry...but
ask your daughter how SHE feels! You say that d's already been abandoned but if your stbxw wants to reconnect,
maybe it's a good thing...maybe it's better than NOT reconnecting w/her?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016