Someone has pointed out, and rightly so, that sbh is not the only one putting pressure on Denver.
Denver DOES seek out your advice.
Others- in general - It's interesting that Denver is so popular and attracts the high profile posters with very strong points of view.
Our goals are twofold:
1) to support Denver 2) and to help him brainstorm using DB techniques...and that can include a wide variety of approaches.
It helps to give a reason for your personal view from your own life. But this is Denver's life. He has to live with his choices at the end of the day. Not what someone else thinks is right or wrong.
Denver's a big boy, and he can actually handle the pressure, and he personally has never complained. This is about readers who may or may not post here.
But it is also not his responsibility to tell someone to stop posting to him. It's like someone stopping by your cube and they keep talking while you turn back to do your work. It's the board equivalent of body language. Stop by, visit, give your 2 cents once , twice, but if you aren't 'welcomed'...move on...someone else will welcome you.
