Preparing For Big D & STILL Here

[25yearsmlc]

Starsky - Isn't helping me move on or isn't helping me from a DB point of view? It's way too late from a DB point of view.

Kaffe - She has no intentions? None? Not even just to keep toying with me?

She doesn't think she is "toying;" she thinks she's being nice to you and wants to be your friend.

Given that she said she's moving in with OM, that's clarity in her words AND actions.

I didn't respond to her last text above, and then this:

STBX: If you could just learn to be my friend things would be so much better (cuz she could still cake eat)


Not sure what the^^^ "cake eating" comment means. How so?

She isn't really flirting w/you much in the texts I am reading.

She's saying she just wants to be friends. You DO have children together.


M: I tried that. Like the night we went to see (concert). It was so nice, but even with you turning it down, for me it didn't feel like watching a concert with just a friend.

^^^that is how YOU felt...

STBX: Ok.

That is NOT how she felt...or she could have said "me too"...


I have not responded and will not. It's amazing the power she has over me.


YOU are the one giving her the power.

From giving me crap about being a bad father to making me swoon in a matter of hours. That's powerful stuff.

ALL of that^^^^ is self inflicted. You REALLY need to see how you are doing this to yourself. At least here in this post, it's all you on you.

Stop giving her all your power.

I will stay dark until Wed when I fly out to Calgary to visit an old friend. Then - a simply "bye in case the plane crashes" call.

Why not just stay dark? How does contact help YOU?