sorry , how did I respond ? she said the (kids were beter off now because I'm forced to be a better father). I said no its because I have learned how to be a better father. I've had alot of time to reflect on how I acted in the past and I know that I needed to change. (you neglected me for 18 yr.) I told her that I thought that was the way she liked it. she never said anything at the time and I worked alot. but I did agree with her that it wasn't right. (she said she never had fun with me ever in 18 yr.) I said what about all the nice vacations that we took. she said we only did what I wanted to do and where i wanted to go.
