As far as I know there is no other guy. my wife has a very low self image, (she's alittle over weight) and low self esteme. our counselor told me it was highly unlikly. that said my wife is very pretty and very out going, im sure she's looking. I spoke with her last night and she told me that I neglected her and was verbaly abusive to her for 18 yr .she said there wasen't 1 good time in 18yr. the neglect was that I took 4 trips with out her, 3 fishing trips with my buddies and 1 ski trip in 18 years. the verbal abuse she states that for instance if she washed the car I would say that the windows wern't clean. how do I get past all this negitivity? everything I have every done is bad to her now. I do realize I was far from perfect but not what she's saying. I'm starting to question her sanity. I don't know this person. everything I say she spins it into a negitive. I have been doing the lRT and that seems to only piss her off more. I've become very active on facebook (lots of new female friends) and on the weekends (with my kids) we have been doing lots of fun things without her and she's jealous. any ideas?
My wife has been telling me the past couple of weeks that I have been verbally abusive as well. I don't think it's be overly excessive and I never yell. Her analogy is "I have stuck her with 1000 needles. One needle doesn't necessarily hurt, but now that there's a 1000, her whole body hurts."
I sometimes think she's got something hormonal or something going on internally. She went to the doctor for a sinus infection the other day and said she was going to ask for some Lexapro, but when she came home she said she forgot about asking for the Lexapro. :-/
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
