sbh- More than the actual advice, it's the "PRESSURE". Denver also wasn't saying...please sbh-tell me more. I think most all of us here agree with being solid, honest and faithful. What you are getting is feedback as to how you are coming across.
We all have different opinions. If someone isn't doing what you want them to do, move on. There are LOTS of folks on this board or other boards you can advise.
What you don't see in posts are the complaints that come in. So, that is the caution for everyone---the pressure.
