As far as I know there is no other guy. my wife has a very low self image, (she's alittle over weight) and low self esteme. our counselor told me it was highly unlikly. that said my wife is very pretty and very out going, im sure she's looking. I spoke with her last night and she told me that I neglected her and was verbaly abusive to her for 18 yr .she said there wasen't 1 good time in 18yr. the neglect was that I took 4 trips with out her, 3 fishing trips with my buddies and 1 ski trip in 18 years. the verbal abuse she states that for instance if she washed the car I would say that the windows wern't clean. how do I get past all this negitivity? everything I have every done is bad to her now. I do realize I was far from perfect but not what she's saying. I'm starting to question her sanity. I don't know this person. everything I say she spins it into a negitive. I have been doing the lRT and that seems to only piss her off more. I've become very active on facebook (lots of new female friends) and on the weekends (with my kids) we have been doing lots of fun things without her and she's jealous. any ideas?
