marathon and relaxing is ahead for this weekend with the kids!

I never thought of myself as trying to "fix" but really trying to help. There was something that didn't seem right about him but I couldn't put my finger on it. I would express concern and now this I get thrown in my face.

Now, I am dealing with others- friends and family- who have their own theories as to what is happening. Some of which hurts to hear. THings I never even thought of which now adds to my own thoughts -how I failed-and really makes things seem to be impossible. The thought of R anyway.

Also, hurts because now our M is put under such scrutiny by everyone!! Embarressing for me.

What do I say to these people who think they are helping?

Also, why is it the MLC'ers rewrite history? Or, is that really how they feel/felt all this time?