He told ow that he was going to give things a try with us, and said she went flying back to her ex-H. I don't know how much I believe of what he said about it, because the lies rolled off his tongue like water over Niagara Falls. He acts more emotional than he did before. Sometimes I wish he wouldn't act quite SO emotional. But, at least he is more open with his feelings. What you said about hating seeing your H driving up after work, oh my goodness, how I can relate!! Even now, sometimes I do a little happy dance when he has a late arrest, and has to be an hour or two late. My mood, too would drop so low, I had to paste on a happy face. He says he is grateful I didn't dump him for what he did, and he is more careful of how he speaks to me, yet there are times when he acts in the mean way, and I hope that he won't go back to the way he was during A. I don't think I could do it again. did your H ever actually say I am sorry? Mine did not, only he was glad I gave him another chance.