We are seperated and have two kids. I thought things were okay and he was taking his time. He is now telling me he didnt file at first when he left because i said I wouldnt sign. Now he wants to file together and agree on everything. The agreeing on everything isnt hard for us custody and the house etc is all agreed upon.. I just dont want this! He is going out partying and saying things like I was hitting on other women and you dont deserve that. His main complaints are that I have taken control in the marriage. He didnt speak up about decisions we made together because he didnt want to cause waves.

He didnt so things so i picked up the slack and now Im paying for it.

Do I file with him or tell him i will tear it up? Or tell him Ill fight him and it will cost?

My heart is bleeding for my family and his lack of effort to work on things. I have talked to Jody twice and am following the rules and I have a life..

Please reply..


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H:32
W: 35
M- 11
Tog- 13
D-5
S-9
Sep. June 5th
Bomb 6/27/11
OW Discovered on July 18th and admitted....
Divorced 11/22/2011
Ex Engaged to OW Jan. 2012