A couple moments to comment on just a small part here.
Originally Posted By: GAL Man
Whilst up to your question this would have been a "deal breaker" for me, and I would not have looked to have W back if that possibility arose, but now I suppose that if W was willing to come back that would indicate that she would be willing to work on the issues, no need for me to specify them up front. I cannot control or influence that, and don't intend to even try, I only control me and W is on her own journey.
Nicely played....
It is said in many different ways:
+ Be the change you want to see
+ Where the mind goes, the heart follows
+ We get what we give
+ Life is a mirror of us
In the end, it begins with us. No matter where our journey takes us. Because we are on a journey as well, without doubt.
Introducing conditions around R or M increases the possibility of failure.
Conditions are OK, without a doubt. And the less conditions we can safely / comfortably allow, the greater the opportunity.