This morning I realized she had changed her facebook status from married to no status at all. Got to me a bit and I'm feeling pretty angry.
Yesterday was a tough day in business. Really tough. A few years back we lost a partnership that brought us in a lot of money. Much of this was due to emotional crap that my wife was involved with. Yesterday seemed like the start of a replay of that. In a way it was but hopefully the outcome is not the same. Very tough.
Cake and Eat it Too!
So here I am back in her cake and eat it too scenario.
She comes into work and kisses me. Kisses me when she leaves. We have dinner together and a little wine. Like nothing is wrong. Then she goes.
Is this just a manipulation. Am I not seeing something here. Or does she really think she can have her cake and eat it too.
Several times in the past she has told me she sees us as continuing on as business partners. Continuing on as best friends. Maybe having houses next to each other on the beach. But not together.
She says we have a marriage that is 99% perfect. It's just that nagging feeling that something is wrong. A feeling she says she's tried to bury.
Somebody jump in here if you would. I would like an opinion to knock me out of my blindness.
