My H asked me a question last night that was "perplexing" him. (yes, that was his word). He first came over to drop kids off to me. He took them to supper last night. He came in and I was busy looking for some cords to a dvd player. He tried to help me find the right one and came across a couple that he had been looking for. Then he mentioned how good I smelled and what kind of perfume I had been wearing...I answered with "same kind as always". Well after finding what I needed he backed up against the counter in the kitchen and said he wanted to ask me a question....a question that had been perplexing him (not sure thats really a word but I knew what he meant) I just said Ok, go for it. He wanted to know if I was hoping that he would still come home. I werent sure how to answer, I was caught off guard by that question. I told him I just was living my life one day at a time and trying to not think about that. I didnt want to get into it really...but then he said "well, actually it was my therapist and I who was talking about it". It somehow then came up that He thought I may have a boyfriend or 2 because I had stopped texting him and he thought that was why. OK, if he thought i had a boyfriend, then why the question of was I waiting on him to come home??
Just odd timing on the conversation last night. Not exactly sure what he was digging for....if I was still waiting for him? Or if I had a boyfriend? Or just being nosey...which is possible too.
Idk....just had the whole conversation on my mind this morning.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10