Well busy morning this morning, I was the first one out of bed this morning, because I love this day! So, I took advantage of the morning and made a nice coffee for my wife and me. After I changed the dressing on my youngest D leg (she had a nasty case of road rash from falling off her bike). I made breakfast (crepes w/ chocolate chips). The kids loved them. Our plan today is to go to my hometown and watch the Canada day parade as a family. My wife is in a good mood too because she loves this day too. Usually we end up at my cousins house after for a few wobbly pops. I will be cooking dinner tonight of steaks, so that will be good too.
Thanks again 25mlc for your insight.(I will read more of your quoted reply later, I can't see all of it on my IPad, and I try not to use the pc so as not to leave tracks to this private forum)
I will try to document more clearly my 180 and reflect at the end of each day, what is working (or not working) and journal it. I can't say that my W and I have had any disagreements for the last 1.5 month since the letter bomb, It feels like so much longer ago. Overall we are getting along fairly well, but like I said b4 platonically. I have been reading a lot of self help books to keep me occupied and to inspire me, (ironically reading more is something I didn't do much of b4 because of my cataracts) but wanted to do more of, and giving my W as much space as I can to not be in her face. The one thing we do enjoy together is watching "It's always sunny in Philadelphia" it's great to laugh together. I wish she would put away her cell phone though and give the texting a rest, its really kinda rude.
I made an appointment at the optometrist to investigate getting refitted fir contacts... It would be nice to ditch the glasses again...
Anyways gotta run... I'll try and add more tonight after the festivities...
Johnnie
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011
