Meaning of pride: pride [prahyd] - noun 1. self-respect 2. something causing one to be proud 3. conceit 4. group of lions
Pride in the right context is not a bad thing True...
Pride of ones children, appearance, performance.
Denver, I say this with incredible sincerity.
I want you to do whatever it is that makes you happy!
Follow DB if it works to save YOU, or follow some deviation of it if that works for YOU...
I've never said that you should take any action against your W.
All I have said in every post is to make her accountable for bad choices.
Don't punish!
Just remember that it's people themselves that create their own misery...
We don't put people in jail, they do it to themselves.
We don't make people pay fines for speeding, they do it to themselves.
And if your W chooses to leave, and is having financial issues, she will do it to herself...
People create their own consequences...
Do what's right for you Denver!
Have a great 4th all...
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
