I guess that's my big contention with going dark-I feel when I am, they're the innocent bystnders being affected. Agree with me not teaching w consequences...venting.
Tank-what did, if anything, work for you?
DB-kids haven't said anything about my ring, however, D5 asked Wed., "Mommy doesn't where here wedding rings and it means you guys aren't married any more. Why aren't you married anymore? I like when you and m ommy are married. Don't you love mommy? Heartwrenching to say the least.
