Originally Posted By: BeTheMan
I would think that because I am feeling so at fault, so guilty? That she can only be the abused one - not me?


I am not a trained counselor... so this is not advice:

Often, life is a mirror. It reflects back on us, that which we project out.

Your wife is the only one who knows the intention of her actions or words.

And only you have the answer of how your life experience felt over the last six years.

And now... the ties are being undone... and how does it feel...?