I took my ring off in an attempt to scare my wife. To try and make her realize that she was losing me. The funny thing is, she wasnt losing me, she left me. She took my ring, her ring and her diamond to the pawn shop. She pawned $5000 worth of rings for a total of $150.00. Who really won in all that? Had i kept my ring, who knows, she might still have hers.
The silver lining to all of this is, that i realize our marriage is over, but that doesnt mean their cant be a new better marriage between us with new rings.
I tried the whole going dark thing, and to be honest, it didnt work for me. It was to difficult with the kids. Luckily in my case she left and i have the kids, but is still got to be too much work.
while your kids are on holidays, really think if this is the best course of action for you. If you were such an important part of their daily lives, how is going dark going to affect them?
Make these decisions to better your life and the life of your children. If it hurts you or them in any way, is trying to teach your wife a lesson or make her suffer the consequences of her actions really worth it?
