Can My Marriage Be Saved?

[a girl]

Thanks for all the great input - I really appreciate it.

Had MC today. Went well, I suppose. Talked after. H stands by his "this is going to end in divorce". We talked, we both cried. We hugged twice while crying, which is the first physical contact since last week after MC, when he hugged me while I cried.

Not sure how to take tonight. He said he just can't see trusting me again, feeling safe with me again, everything reminds him of how I hurt him.

He did agree that we've made some movement in MC, though he was careful to say it was on an "individual level". He also says he feels like he's destroying everything and he wish he knew how to fix it, wishes he'd been strong enough when the issues happened to drag me to counseling.

Really not sure from here. He did agree to me request that we spend time talking to each other about not the relationship, but not "small talk".

I know that's "pursuit", but it feels like it could help. Now I need some ideas about topics. Any good books/websites/ideas?