How many times that I wished for a phonecall a simple text.
Something!! Anything!!!
And now she misses my voice??
NO
Not fair.
My emotions count also
My feelings matter
I was NOT a bastard in my M
I made mistakes sure.
Plenty of mistakes but divorce was not an option
She was not perfect she was not a perfect woman she was good but not perfect and neither was I.
But damn it I never bailed!! I never walked! I stood!! Against all odds I stood. I put myself In huge debt trying to save a M that was not worth saving!
But I stood!!!
Now she misses my voice??????
I quoted your whole post 2.
This is the turning point in how you perceive your sitch.
You have carried the heavy load all this long while and have excorcised your demons and laid your soul bare.
Time for her to work a little?
Maybe?
I am not saying set up flaming hoops for her to jump through like a poodle in a circus.(borrowed this from J3B)
You are divorced yes?
She misses your voice?
Well what is she going to do about it?
Will she know she really wants it if you hand her what she wants on a silver platter with some blue cheese and celery?
You have come a long with your detachment and moving forward.
Under what circumstances do you risk that?
She will surely test you along the way.
There is and will always be a degree of regret or confusion on her part IMO.
What is THAT ^^^ or REAL desire to reconcile?
How will you know that? What does it look and feel like?
She misses your voice?
Nostalgia? Regret? Memory and longing of the 2step gone by?
Don't risk yourself or your D to anything short of your heart knowing the answer to these questions.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
