gosh denver,

my friend.........a lot of people have very strong opinions on what you should or should not do......

i have said this before (and i am a woman, so will gladly repeat myself)....only you know your wife

only you know your history and what brought you to this place

trust your gut

you have come a long way

i think you are doing great

and you sure know how to rile people up- don't you

xoxo
me

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