Men do not quit playing because they grow old; they grow old because they quit playing. ~ Oliver Wendell Holmes
Denver,
You and others are AGAIN making this way more complicated than it really is.. Making it way DEEPER than it really is..
Lighten up. Women rarely leave a happy man.. You have NOT been a happy man according to what I have observed..
You and your wife said you were NOT happy with her when you were together..
You were NOT happy when she wanted out..
You are NOT happy now because you are focused on your limbo..
Guess what is the common thread here?
YEP.. You always seem unhappy. It comes across in your posts too..
You are like Dorothy in the "Wizard Of Oz".. You HAVE had the secret the whole time here but you keep looking for something drastic or dramatic and deep...
HERE IT IS...... be ready this is DEEP...
LEARN TO BE A HAPPY MAN..
That's it..
Deep huh? But it IS without a doubt your answer.. All of the deep posts and psycho babble you keep hearing is wasted energy..
LEARN TO BE A HAPPY MAN..
You WILL find then that all your troubles will start to vanish....
Be happy JUST the way things are in your life.. Be happy..
That's it..
I have been doing this for THIRTY years..
Happy men, fun men..... THEY get and keep the woman.. Trust me.. I AM a happy man.... Happy men are like a magnet to women.. Happy, confident, mature...
STOP trying to make this so deep... It isn't.. LEARN TO BE HAPPY.. If you don't learn that, EVEN is she does reconcile it won't work because you will THEN find something else to be unhappy about. You are already warning us of what that unhappiness will be, such as.. "can I forgive her? can I forget? can I this? can I that?...
Happy men don't think that way Denver... Get a grip on yourself...
