I consider us a success...I think my story is still in the archives somewhere...basically, for me it became about growing and learning about myself...working on me...and in the end it worked on both of us... I have a friend that is going through a terribly nasty divorce and my advice to her was to just work on what she needed...to see what she could do to become a better person...and that one day she would feel a weight lifted...she would feel peace...and she would KNOW she was going to be okay not matter what...her no matter what is going to be divorced...but she is at peace...has no regrets...and isn't looking back wondering "what if?"...that to me is also success...if you can't save your marriage, you still have to save yourself!
