my heart is breaking

[kermitdfrog]

So my D had a flat tire today, and decided to call her dad (although she has avoided him). When they said goodbye, she said "you know dad, it sure would be nice to have an answer." (referring to her and S's intervention with him) He said "I'm thinking about it" She also said he was wearing his wedding ring (she checked just in case) and he mentioned me, fondly, a few times. While he was with her, she mentioned that she was coming to our house tonight to have dinner with me and our S. So., later, after he left work, he called me to see if it would be ok to come and have dinner with us. I played it cool and didn't sound excited. I just sounded pleasant, and said "You're always welcome here. That would be really nice" So he came and we had a wonderful time. It is the first time in 6 months that we have all sat together at the dinner table. It warmed my heart, and the kids seemed so happy. Also, both when he arrived and when he left, he hugged me tightly and kissed me on the mouth. It almost seemed like old times! Almost...
Also, his mom is doing a bit better and now has moved to the retirement home. His sister and brother are in from out of town.
Does it sound at all like a good sign? Why would he want to come over for a family dinner if he wants out of the marriage? He has to believe it would lead me on. But who knows. This journey has so many twists and turns all I can do is hold on and experience the ride.