Makes sense, yes. Especially, not initiating or resisting the D. Not sure I want do do the third party with the kids. They are going on vacation after the fourth for two weeks w/o me of course. So that space will be good for me...but will miss the kids terribly.
The week after they get back, the kids have all sorts of camps sports,etc during the day. In the past, I would always help or take the lead with those activities. I need to be unavailable..w really needs to understand what it will be like to be a single mother of 4. Just wait 'til he school year starts without me. Again, I took the lead there, too. When the in laws leave in the fall, W may have a rude awakening.
I know this may sound spiteful, just want w to realize there are consequences for being a WAW. She's been really insulated from reality by parents and coworkers. As I was kicked out on the street to fend for myself. Seems wrong..
Sorry for the ramblig...journaling/venting. Stay dark, keep GALing, stay positive and grateful for what I do have..
