as usual. Good solid advice. No problem now. Other than every time I slip into bed she immediately rolls over way from me. Sometimes she rolls back, but we were never really a "spooning" couple. though we did cuddle at times.

We slept apart for 7 weeks in Nov. - Dec. Then one day, she just asked me to come back into the bed. Been that way since. She almost always goes to sleep before me, so I don't think she'll notice that much one-way or the other.

My bed options are limited. Since we started sleeping in the same bed. We moved our 4-year old to the spare bed. Our 20 month old got the 4-year-olds mini-bed. So it would be the couch or a futon for me.

Honestly, that is a big reason for me. Neither is hope attached to it.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.